Hey Lovelies,
So as we near when we’d originally planned to do our FET I need to own up. We are postponing it. Life is tricky business, guys, it’s so hard being able to know when the right time for something like this would be, but I can tell you that now aint it. Hubby has a crazy exam coming up in like a week. Stress around jobs for both of us is pretty high.
This just isn’t the ideal way to jump into the process of expanding our family!
The FET is sure to be plenty stressful all on its own and so the hubby and I have decided to wait a little longer. We aren’t really sure how long that “longer” will be and that’s kind of the beauty of it. We don’t have to decide just yet. Bean Sprout isn’t even 2 yet. We still have a lot of time left before he gets to an age where I would consider spacing an issue… So, for right now, I just need to give myself permission to take a breather. Enjoy the stage I’m at a little more. When the time is right the frozen embies will still be there… Deep breath. It’s ok to change plans… it is better not to walk forward when you shouldn’t just for the sake of walking forward.
It will all be ok.
The Chicken
A well deserved breather, and just in time for a summer full of memories with the Bean Sprout.
Vic,
Exactly. Cheers to that, lady!
XOXXO, The Chicken
I always say, when you have a choice, make the most of it because often there isn’t a choice!
I hope you get through the next bit of stress and that the rest of your “breather” is enjoyable!
Turtle,
Me too, everything crossed it gives me the space and perspective I need.
XOXXO, The chicken
That sounds like a good plan. Hopefully when the time is right, you’ll know and the pieces will fit into place!
Dubliner,
I sure hope so. I just know that it doesn’t feel right right now.. that’s all I can go off.
XOXXO The Chicken